The Demise of Gor
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At a time when most Gorean chats are lucky to have maybe three rp'ers on a good night... some self appointed mucky mucks think its their place in life to drive more and more would be Goreans from the online world . I guess in their minds they are convinced they are doing Gor a favor. Just bully people until they throw up their hands in disgust and leave. None of us are perfect in our own eyes, let alone being perfect in some self righteous eyes.
I've been here for 20 years, I've seen hundreds of 30 day wonder chat rooms come and go, but the over all population has steadily shrunk. Perhaps thats their purpose. We are paid up until 2020, we will renew when that time comes. We are not going anywhere!
Cabot
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Oooh...If the shoe fits ...wear it....
You have always been a steady port in the Gorean storm, Sar. I look forward to visiting Vendara often. ~ Madie Veyl
Who exactly has been bullied into leaving?
The biggest bully was an FW from YOUR Home. That ONE woman has cost Gor dozens of people, NOW you speak up when She leaves instead of the other dozens of times She caused people to leave? Hypocrisy.
Your comparison is between a "30 day wonder home" which tries to do things correctly and yet fails due to a lack of interest versus a "20 year blunder home" whose claim to fame is it's leadership doing NOTHING to correct the obvious problem for 20 YEARS and fails because people walked away from the lack of enforced Gorean standards despite them being publicly published LAWS of the home? It's someone else's (our) fault that you don't enforce your own laws? Is that what you just said? LMFAO. Ok.
Actions and the lack thereof BOTH have consequences. You didn't take action to defend your own people from a proven Domestic Enemy within your own walls, they suffered and they died from Your lack of concern for their well being. You and ONLY You are to blame for that.
I change my mind on my post. The demise of gor is when men allow women to be stronger than they are. You a good man personally Cabot but kyrielle has made you look weak.
You blaming US for Kyrielle leaving is EXACTLY the same as Custer blaming the Sioux for the massacre of the 7th Cavalry at Little Bighorn. WE weren't the aggressors here, we merely launched counter assaults AFTER first being attacked by your people and we were the victors this time. So like Crazy Horse once said on June 26th 1876 "welcome to the Greasy Grass Yellow Hair."
No one was bullied into leaving. If it helps you sleep better at night thinking Kyrielle was “bullied†into leaving then good for you. She made you and Vendara look weaker than some of these 30 day wonder homes you disparage. Bianciella is right; you’re a good man, but you didn’t do anything to keep her in check and it’s your city she claimed as home. This is all partly on you. People don’t come to or stay in Gor for a variety of reasons. Don’t accuse others for the decline of Gor.
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Look in your own backyard.
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The obvious silver lining here is that You have been given the opportunity to start fresh again. Vendara has plenty of other Citizens to help You rebuild. HomeSword, Asya, Mortimas, Aaminah, Samson,Delilah and more. That's plenty to lend their support and bring others in again.
the decline of Gor is because a lot of people went to real life more some had lost there job and other things and decided not to come back to Gor, I know Kylrielle left for a bit but she will return she done this before just taking a break is all like all thing Gor will die that normal as others go to place to do more thing and the younge do not like to type and rp at all with vidio games ect, would be nice to see yu more often Thiery, Bianciella and wampe have not seen you in over what 4 months
I made no reference to Kyrie, nor to Haigan, Thiery. or Wampf. In fact Haigan, I welcomed you to build your cottage in the Home site of Ven'dara, encouraged you... Kyrie returned not at my urging, but more for her friendship with Pene. Was I glad to see her return...yes....as I am glad to see any gorean return. That she was not accepted was not Pene's fault. We were willing to give her a past is past second chance. It was not to be. She blew her second chance. Gor can be very unforgiving..
Or rather those behind the monitor can be very unforgiving. I bid you a very pleasant evening...and I honestly look forward to better futures for all.
@Aaminah - we're all around still, usually found in the Wanderers of Gor room. Feel free to stop by.
that would be in lifestyles have not seen it but looking forward to seeing it\
It’s a Group also.
so where the website where you do yur rping at so I can come in and see what you do
Aaminah it's the "Wanderers of Gor" room here on Buzzen. It's under "Lifestyles" like all Gorean rooms are.