banned from "a place of pleasure"

[Bamberg_1]

Was going thru the chatroom list when upon joining "a place of pleasure" i was given the "you have been banned" message  .  This was my first time entering this room and I was just wondering why I was banned?  Is it a by invite only or something? Could it be someone from another room is the owner and thats the reason?  Just wondering why since I never received and notice and it was my first time trying to enter.

[JeÅ—Å—]

Yes, it is by invite only. We only add people after speaking with them to see if they are a good fit.

[♥Khajira♥]

Now you perked my interest..  What on earth distinguishes you. l get the invite only but not the 'SPEAKING WITH THEM.. or the GOOD FIT.  If they are banned from entering how on earth do you speak to them...telepathically??? Just asking like.

[Bamberg_1]

Yes a simple icon on the room, the yellow triangle with ! would have kept this from ever getting started in the first place.